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‘NAHI MEANS NO’





   14             – MAKING A STATEMENT!

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                                                                                 surrounding  it  like  victim
                                                                                 blaming.  She  mentions  in
                                                                                 one  of  her  poems  that  the
                                                                                 word  ‘No’  was  considered
                                                                                 profanity in her home. How
                                                                                 large a role do you think the
                                                                                 stigmatization  of  the  word
                                                                                 plays  in  encouraging  sexual
                                                                                 predators and in encouraging
                                                                                 victim blaming.



                                                                                 Ms  Sunanda:  A  huge  role
                                                                                 and  that  is  exactly  what
                                                                                 our  workshop  is  about.  As
                                                                                 a  society  we  have  been
                                                                                 conditioned  to  always  say
                                                                                 yes, because it is disrespectful
                                                                                 to  say  no,  and  that  is  what
          From  false  rape  charges  to     The  session  also  included        a  predator  psychologically
          abortions and India’s future       self-defense training in Krav       plays upon.
          of  gender  equality,  the         Maga  where  techniques  of
          students of DPSI (MYP and          self-defense were showcased         Rashed: The fact is that India
          DP)  seized  the  opportunity      by trained professionals and        is a developing country and
          to talk about and gain insight     the  students  got  a  chance       there  are  huge  differences
          into some of our time’s most       to experience the same first        in  economic  strata,  which
          important  local  and  global      hand.                               lead  to  lack  of  education
          issues in a session hosted by                                          and  differences  in  ideology
          Ms Sunanda, Ms Ruchi and           Excerpts from the interview         as well. Would you say that
          Ms Anchal, representatives of                                          these gaps make it harder to
          the organization ‘Nahi Means       Simar:  Rupi  Kaur’s  book,         approach  people  regarding
          No’  -  an  online  awareness,     The  Sun  and  Her  Flowers         this issue?
          safety,  and  empowerment          is  a  collection  of  poems
          campaign regarding rape and        that address the concept of         Ms Sunanda: Definitely! That
          sexual violence.                   sexual abuse and the issues         is why the issue first needs to
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